...within the first five seconds

What a welcoming entrance! I came across this gate, which serves as an entrance to a garden, and thought it created such an inviting atmosphere. The wrought iron gate flanked by vibrant green bushes, preceded by a canal of rocks, was a perfect way to enter a colorful Spring garden. I was definitely enticed to go in and take a look!

Once inside I realized the entrance was just the beginning...the garden was quite picturesque. I saw Spring flowers just starting to break through the ground (this picture was taken a couple of weeks back when winter seemed as though it would never end...), rolling green grass perfect for taking a nap, and birds perched on tree branches serenading visitors. I started to think about how important that first impression truly can be.

Upon first meeting someone, that initial impression either makes him/her feel welcome and comfortable talking with you, or completely disinterested and ready to run away. It's so amazing how a simple smile or laugh can create a welcoming atmosphere, easing any discomfort. Then, when you meet someone else, how often do you say to yourself, "That person is so friendly...I feel like I've known him(or her) for years!". Usually the most outgoing people are the individuals always surrounded by large groups of friends.

When going about your work day, isn't the same thing true? Shouldn't you present a friendly demeanor so colleagues are encouraged to work or do business with you? For business owners the same idea holds true - if you have an office you should always make sure your front entrance (much like the garden gate) is welcoming and encourages people to come in for a visit.


What do you do throughout the day that encourages individuals to approach you?

How does the entrance to your office/store say, "Come in, we would love to meet you!"

Do you consider, during the day, how every first impression could lead to future success?


I guess what it all comes down to is how you want others to remember their encounter with you come the end of the day...

That's the Golden Perspective...what's yours?